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No matter how long you've known your partner, buying gifts for men can be quite a challenge sometimes. Of course, you want to make a deep impression by choosing the right gift, but there are some gifts that you should probably avoid, such as the following: Flowers or dolls Men usually like gifts that are practical and functional. Unlike women who usually like flowers or dolls for any occasion, the effect of these types of gifts seems to be different for men. Except for special occasions such as graduation, avoid giving flowers as a gift to your partner. Cheap perfume or fakes Gifting branded items will certainly make a lasting impression, but if your budget is tight, giving cheaper versions of the same item or counterfeit is not a good idea. Especially if the partner has quite specific tastes, giving these items would be seen as disrespectful to the recipient. It is better to find an alternative that fits your budget than the gift given making a bad impression. Daily needs In speci...

  Marriage is a celebration of the greatness of love and life. When you decide to tie the knot, you want to turn this big decision into a special occasion and celebrate with a party for memories. You may be the one getting married, but having a party isn't that easy. In some cultures, as in most Asian cultures, marriage is not simply a celebration of two souls coming together. It is more like the joining of two families so that the parents of the bride and groom are part of (and sometimes, their business too!) the celebrations. Often in Asian cultures, weddings are also a symbol of social status by presenting more than a thousand people on the guest list. So, when a wedding is a celebration of the bride and groom and both sides of the family, who should bear this cost? The answer to that question depends on what culture you are married to. For example in India, all costs will be borne by the bride's family. But in Indonesian culture, usually, the groom's family will take ca...

  10 Ways to Build a Good Relationship with a Future Mother-in-Law. To build a harmonious home life with your future husband, it is important to invest in your closeness with his parents as well. By establishing good relations with his closest relatives, you will have a more solid foundation on which to build your marriage and make it easier for the two families to unite as one. If you want to make a good impression on your future family-in-law, you must prepare yourself to strategize in winning over them differently, because your future father and mother-in-law may have different personalities. This time we will specifically discuss tips on how to get your future mother-in-law to accept you as her future daughter-in-law. Below are 10 easy ways to get closer and have a good relationship with your future husband's mother. 1. Always be polite and sincere Under any circumstances, it is very important to maintain your decency and sincerity in front of him. Even when you're angry or...

 Yes, you should be able to feel free to express all that is in your heart and mind to your partner, but there are some words, complaints, or sentences that you should avoid even when you are angry or disappointed. You cannot take these dangerous words back and will only disturb your household. These sentences can hurt your partner's feelings and even crack the foundation of the marriage that has been built. So, think carefully before speaking because the words you speak determine the success of your marriage. Our advice, avoid saying these things to your husband: 1. Regret about your marriage There may be times when you are preoccupied with household matters, while your single friends seem to be enjoying their freedom. You also say, "if I were single ". Or maybe your partner doesn't live up to some of your expectations, so you say, "I shouldn't have married you." Statements that imply a sense of regret can make the husband feel like a failure in this ma...

  What is love? One of the most frequently asked questions and one that has thousands of answers. Nothing defines it. Many have attempted to describe it based on the feelings they experience, but we can say that: Love is not a feeling. Love is a decision we make. The meaning of love based on the opinion of experts Various scientists and philosophers have long tried to define love. There is no sacred formula for the meaning of love. What can be defined is the understanding of love from various points of view of life. Here are some meanings of love from famous thinkers: - A desire within humans to develop themselves to maintain their spiritual growth or the spiritual development of others is the meaning of love according to M. Scott Peck, an American psychiatrist and author of The Road Less Traveled. - The definition of love according to Quraish Shihab, a national Muslim figure, is the tendency of the human heart to do something because of the pleasures or benefits that can be obtain...

Not a few people think that marrying someone means marrying their family too. So, entering the first years of marriage you not only have to adapt to a new life with your partner, but also adjust and build good relationships with other family members, especially their parents who are now your in-laws. But what if you experience problems in establishing closeness with one or both of your in-laws? Don't give up just yet, because today we're going to help you identify the types of issues with your in-laws that you might be facing and share tips on dealing with them healthily and positively. We hope that you will soon find a solution to deal with a problematic relationship with your in-laws. Problem #1: My in-laws are too controlling Is it precisely your mother-in-law who is in control of your household and your husband's? Does he often order you to do or not do something, determine where you have to live and arrange how to care for children so that he often gets angry if his ...

A wedding anniversary is a beautiful reminder of your journey with your partner and an extraordinary moment. A wedding anniversary is a great time to celebrate memorable moments, togetherness, and the future. So, if your wedding anniversary is just around the corner, get ready to make a list of surprises for your loved ones. You certainly want the gifts you give to be not only functional and practical but also have their own "message". So the keywords apart from being unique, practical, and memorable are personal. choose a gift that not only can be reused by your partner but can also show that you prepared it with care and attention. So, when your husband opens your gift, he will feel that no one understands him better than you. However, for those of you who are not celebrating a wedding anniversary, some of these gift ideas can also be used as a surprise in welcoming Valentine's Day. Whiskey Rocks Glass For those of you who like to make parties at home, then this gift id...