12 Questions to Evaluate your Parents

 

Some people assume that you can't say what a good or indeed a bad parent is. But we don't agree so we've designed a checklist of what we think makes up a good parent, firstly and most obviously a good parent adores, their child they're, simply overjoyed. That they exist and don't mind telling the offspring that fact in direct and indirect ways at small and large moments pretty much every day there is no risk of spoiling anyone like this spoiled people are those who were denied love, not those who were regularly bathed in its calming waters, secondly, the good parent is attuned to their child.

secondly, a good parent iattentattention toisten very closely indeed to what the small person is trying to say this means getting down on their knees and calmly paying attention to certain messages that may sometimes sound extremely weird or frustrating. Maybe the child is saying that they are very sad, even though it's their birthday and the parent has gone into enormous trouble with the presence. Maybe they are saying that they are angry with the teacher. Even if education is in principle, very important and the school was difficult to get into, children are filled with complicated emotions, a good parent allows this room. A good parent isn't envious of their children. They are strong enough to allow them to have a better life than they did. Good parents are on top of their issues. They don't think it's a good idea to make someone very unhappy, because maybe someone else made them miserable long ago. Good parents know about boundaries.

good parents know about boundaries the game was hilarious for a long time, but now it's the moment to wind down put the paints away get back to work, or go up to bed. The good parent doesn't mind being hated for a time in the name of honoring reality. Good parents don't mind seeming a bit boring and predictable small kids. Don't need excitement and drama from their parents. They want a secure base from which to explore the world. Now we might think back to our pasts and give our carers a score out of 10 to measure how things went. It isn't unfair or mean sometimes in the privacy of our minds, to hold people to account pick up a pen and paper as we run through a list, and score each option out of 10. My parent made me feel deeply loved and wanted and was often highly attuned to what I actually felt was able to tolerate a degree of innocent disobedience and was authentically happy about it. My success lacked sadistic impulses and avoided imposing too many of their issues on me. Didn't demand to be admired. Wasn't too exciting knew how to play had boundaries. Tolerated descent took an interest in my small joys and pains. We don't need a score of 120 to be robust, but if things were to drop much below 60, there might be grounds for a good deal of reflection and sorrow. The best thing, if you haven't had a great childhood, is to be as knowledgeable as possible about what went wrong and why? How to overcome.

how to overcome your childhood is a book that teaches us how character is developed. The concept of emotional inheritance, the formation of our concepts of being good or bad, and the impact of parental styles of love on the way we choose adult partners

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