Understanding the meaning of failure that we have experienced so that we can introspect ourselves

 

It's not always what we plan is realized well, sometimes there are basic things that can't be avoided when the plan then fails and can't be realized properly. Here are some things that might make our design not work the way we want:

1. We don't realize our true potential

Forcing our will to become something we want is good, because there is a clear effort to make it happen. But there are many people who always fail in their desired field.

Never think we can achieve the same success as others.

This is an important thing that everyone should think about, basically we don't can achieve success like other people because our era with other people must be different. I still remember how Indro "Warkop" said when interviewed that in fact no one else can replace Warkop's position, when it comes to Warkop, Dono, Kasino and Indro (artist and aktor in Indonesia) . Likewise with success, we cannot stick to the success of others because basically we have a path of success like other people, even if there are similarities in the path of life, it is only because we are inspired and try to find out what that person has in common with ourselves. So why be so busy thinking like other people, when we ourselves don't actually have the same potential as other people.

2. Giving up too soon

Failed at many things, as long as he never stops trying to achieve it, then failure doesn't actually happen.There is only a learning process. When I chose writing as a way of life, I often had to accept a lot of misfortune, in fact I was rejected 4 times in a row within a month for 4 different manuscripts. If I quit, I might not write anymore. And it's proven that in 2010 I wrote again and published six books.

So actually we can ask ourselves, are we giving up too soon or are we really on the process towards success as we want.

3. Something better awaits

When one of my works was delayed for a long time, I was disappointed because something that I had done to the maximum was not appreciated by the publisher. I then felt that I had no meaning anymore, until then I was trapped in the thoughts that surrounded me. Even though after patiently waiting for some time, it turned out that my work received a fairly good response among readers. 

From this I finally learned, that failure basically teaches someone to be more patient, because there is a will from Him that will make us much better than we thought before.

4. Arrogant, until we don't realize we throw ourselves down

Arrogance, this is what makes a person fall and fall into failure. It could be that failure is a medium to reprimand us from Him.

Sometimes without realizing it we always feel that we can do everything well, until finally we think of ourselves as superior to others.Even though this is a way not to listen to other people's opinions until finally we are trapped in an arrogant situation and feel that other people are not better than ourselves. ourselves again. Even failure must be accepted with a bitter taste. 

If this is the situation, maybe it's time for us to take a breath and think about the things we have done so far and how we build relationships with the people around us.

5. Too busy thinking about other people's cheating in achieving success

Not everyone in this world thinks clearly and honestly in achieving the desired success, sometimes we will meet people who make every effort to make themselves successful in a deceitful way. Namely the person who knocks down others around him for the possibility of advancing himself..

If we are fixated on their way, then we will only continue to fixate on success with role models like them. Remember the first point, we cannot equate our path to success like other people, because basically we have our own path of success. So once again why do we dedicate time to think about the cheating of others, it would be wise if we are busy thinking about our own work and success. We don't need to think that many other people are deceitful in doing business, one thing is for sure we can be successful without having to act like them, maybe we can even be better than them.

This is a little reflection that can I share, I'm very happy to be able to write again on this blog.

Greetings of Inspiration